Tongue is sharper and mightier than a sword.

“Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic, capable of both inflicting injury, and remedying it.”   ~ Albus Dumbledore

Words are like coffee for the soul, it miraculously changes us in multifarious ways. It’s up to us whether we pour it out with the sweetness of love or bitterness of hatred. We never know few felicitous words spoken with sincerity of heart can make a difference in someone’s life, including even ours. Often we underestimate the power of a word, a touch, a feeling but sometimes the most trivial words like Thanks, Sorry, and Please, etc from the right person at the right time can turn someone’s whole day around and can create euphoria in a moment. Words are the most powerful weapon which can light happiness as well as wring tears from the hardest hearts.  It often happens with us, our ego inflicted mind stops us from saying something when it’s needed and later we regret for the unspoken words which remains unheard and unfelt forever.

The tree is known by it's fruit likewise we are known by our words. It’s said character defines personality, but choice of our words reveals the character within. The ways we speak are an expression of our own inner selves. The good man brings out good and evil man brings out evil. It’s up to us whether we enunciate constructively using words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Our weightless words define our attributes. People overlooks demeanor, it's word which overwhelms them. Words are like arrows, once loosed we can’t call them back. We can mend the wound given by arrows, but the wound of someone’s words breaking our heart might not amend.Therefore we must avoid cacophonous and beguiling words and weigh our words before discoursing it.

Be a wheedler and use artful persuasion of thaumaturgic words, with love and gentleness imbibed in it because when we let love weave the words in our conversation people remember it forever.

~ Sneha Singh

:-( Forgotten And Replaced! :-)

Athazagoraphobia, the fear of being forgotten or ignored or replaced by someone when you strongly care about. It is one of the most common phobias which people of all ages struggle with in their own ways. In our day to day lives we often feel rejected and replaced. Our pain of being left for someone else steadily results in dejection and we find it dissatisfying to make friends with people we find it hard to relate to. On this journey of life in spite of tend to find ourselves a solitary loner we must decide at this very minute to never again beg anyone for the love, respect, and attention we deserve because sometimes no matter how much we do, we can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to us. It’s not pride- it’s self respect. We must always remember this undeniable fact of life, “when we are unwanted and unworthy to one person, we are priceless to another”.
Some people are so magnificent that they replace another, but they can never replace the everlasting spark of affection, care, and understanding. They can seize our place in someone’s life but can never endow with the same place we used to possess because feelings are interchangeable, but memories are not. Always remember no one can ever replace us; nobody’s ever going to erase us.

We often experience in a group of friends or a single friendship, when someone else come along the other person go crazy over the newcomer and start leaving us out of everything. Before we know it, we have been replaced. The biggest lock (disappointments) in our lives are often the result of our misplaced notions and expectations, which can only be unlocked with the key of communication.The moment we feel rejected we must avoid getting angry and envious and try to deduce the right reason by confronting our friend. If we tell how this has made us feel, they may realize.
Even though after so much of exertion if they don’t realize our worth, we should simply stop wasting our time in associating with them. Things work themselves out. It’s just a matter of time and a way of life – when someone steps into a new place, willingly or unwillingly they have to replace someone from that irreplaceable place.

We should never give part-time people full-time position in our lives. Know our own value and what we have to offer, and never settle for anything less than what we deserve. When someone treats us like we are just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing ourselves from the equation. Let them miss us. When we’re always available they take us for granted because they think we will always stay no matter what. ~Sneha Singh